Why don’t we earn some noise when it comes to soles inside your home! (It really is me, the base at home.) Bottom community is actually quite anythingâ„¢ Online lately! Exactly what will it actually suggest becoming a bottom? Why comes with the society decided bottoming is just getting scared to inquire of for just what need? And how does a person go-about choosing as long as they like bottoming?!

With all of these questions rattling around our minds, requiring answers, Drew and I also knew there clearly was only 1 individual we’re able to choose for a rounded, passionate conversation about bottoming: The Gay Chingy AKA Chingy Nea, AKA the underside Supreme. Chingy is amongst the greatest individuals i understand creating and tweeting today, and also as a bottom my self, Im recognized to phone the woman my personal chief. Chingy helps us tease on exactly what it method for be a bottom, precisely why she hates “smol bean” bottom part society, the body as opening, along with your human anatomy as

whole

. It’s a very gorgeous dialogue, easily carry out say so myself personally! Kindly realize that I am aware that I state “gorgeous” approximately three thousand times this episode, and I am pursuing help for my problem. (The condition is actually speaking like 57 yr old white gay man.)

And! This week’s video game involves me personally speculating if complex plots Drew defines belong to a motion picture or an aspiration she had circa 2006. It is not easy!

SHOW NOTES

+ Read Chingy’s
Bottom Manifesto
, follow the woman
on Twitter
and
IG
!

+is a list of all of the movies that Drew utilized in the woman video game:

• 
  The Seventh Seal
  
  (1937)
• 
  Bringing Up Baby
  
  (1938)
• 
  
  Pierrot le Fou
  
  
  (1965)
• 
  Black Swan
  
  (2010)

+Watch Anna Faris carry out the finest work of the woman job in

Smiley Face!

+Let

Shohreh Aghdashloo chat one to sleep while clothed as Chrisjen


Avasarala


from

The Expanse

because you need that.

+Cindy Wilson associated with B52s is quite hot and honestly? “Love Shack” however whips!

+
Robert Mitchum
, stone cold fox.

EPISODE

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Chingy

: i have only already been bottoming since I have had been, I am not sure, as far back as i could bear in mind.

Drew

: Cue Rags to Riches from

Goodfellas.

Chingy

: As far back as i could remember, i desired to be a bottom, no, but type of

[intro plays]

Drew

: Hi, I’m Drew.

Christina

: I’m Christina.

Drew

: Thanks for visiting

Hold off, Is It a Date

?

Christina

:

Wait, Is It a Date?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast dedicated to the only, the actual only real the largest question your occasions: hold off, Is This a night out together?

Drew

: And, wow, i must say i just froze upwards there.

Christina

: I found myself like, oh crap, I happened to be supposed to say one thing! [laughs]

Drew

: i am really fast for the banter, my personal head merely… The truth is that I found myself checking out over my game notes, which we’re not at yet because we still have to introduce our selves. So, I’m going to try to stay centered on one job each time.

Christina

: Focus upwards!

Drew

: My name is Drew Gregory, I am an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and a trans lady.

Christina

: Hi, i’m called Christina Tucker, forgot my finally title for a hot moment, no fuss. Im also a writer at Autostraddle alongside spots online, a podcaster, a gay black girl. Which is method of it, dog, which is me personally.

Drew

: I favor it. Okay, now we-

Christina

: Now the game.

Drew

: are we able to have fun with the video game?

Christina

: are we able to get right to the game? I am able to let you know’re thrilled, I am able to inform you’re just vibrating.

Drew

: very, I’ve been maintaining a dream record since 2007, together with assumption for this video game is-

Christina

: I didn’t know this about yourself!

Drew

: Yes, it’s not as up to date now, I familiar with record all my personal fantasies and then it’s only if one thing truly sticks. But, the premise of this game is actually, am we explaining the storyline of a dream I got whenever I ended up being an adolescent, or was we describing the plot of a film that I appreciated when I had been an adolescent?

Christina

: Oh boy, ok.

Drew

: therefore, how it’s going to go is we’ll always describe it a dream and also in one individual. Thus, whether it was

Superstar Wars,

I’d resemble, I’m in room and I also’m fighting as part of a rebellion, so there’s a bad  man who’s wearing a black robot match also it ends up he is my father. Which is the way I’ll explain it, how we describe hopes and dreams, but sometimes it can be a dream, sometimes it’ll end up being from a movie. Prepared?

Christina

: I’m one thing, I’m not sure that I’m prepared, but let us rock. Why don’t we see just what I can do right here.

Drew

: Okay, i am on a beach and I also see this strange guy wearing black. The guy tells me he’s dying so we can play a game title to decide basically live or if the guy requires me. I find a way to escape, but everywhere I go, men and women are unwell and that I feel like dying still is soon after me.The just delighted component happens when We satisfy a theater troupe and they are lots of fun.

Christina

: This,I think, is actually an aspiration.

Drew

: this could be Ingmar Bergman’s

The Seventh Seal

from 1957.

Christina

: this will be gonna be a genuine gotcha on CT’s classic movie knowledge, because what I know Drew, inside puberty, had not been performing had been viewing motion pictures that i will acknowledge. At this stage, i am style of wanting that I’ve seen none of them. I do believe that’ll be more fun for my situation.

Drew

: Another one, I’m ending up in my family plus some Italian US gangsters. Among gangsters needs that we give more than some money, but my loved ones and I also been able to avoid. We hightail it through this all cold terrain, on the road I satisfy an actress and relate with the girl. We land in a suburb. I think we’re going to begin another life collectively until she takes me to a large mansion, and I understand it is one of the gangster. It actually was all a trap, the gangster shows up so there’s a confrontation. I eliminate him, the dream comes to an end using actress carrying out a musical quantity.

Christina

: So is this a movie?

Drew

: this could be an aspiration I had in 2008.

Christina

: Okay, wow. Boy, yeah, i suppose I have to remember that it’s 2000, it really is old school received brain. That is what i must keep in mind.

Drew

: Also like, what films was we watching at that time and how much did that impact my desires?

Christina

: Well, yeah, plainly quite a bit!

Drew

: A fun truth is that I found myself actually, I didn’t integrate this simply because I imagined this might give it away, nevertheless gangster was actually Tony Soprano because I found myself seeing

The Sopranos

in 2008. Thus, that’s an enjoyable small fact. Okay, next one, I have a significant task, but this hot lady shows up and begins annoying me personally. I would like to end up being together with her, but I also need to get my work accomplished, and so I inform the lady to go out of. She helps to keep after me personally. Suddenly, a leopard appears inside my room and I also must spend the other countries in the fantasy trying to capture the leopard. I am still truly stressed, We never finish might work, but at the least the lady is hot.

Christina

: it’s become a dream of yours, this has becoming a Drew dream.

Drew

: This is Howard Hawks’

Discussing Baby

from 1938.

Christina

: No, but that’s a dream of yours, this is the most Drew fantasy i have ever heard. Today at this time, i am merely probably going to be spinning movie record, to suit my whims.

Drew

: Great, i really like that. Okay, i am at a celebration and I do not really like anybody there. Ultimately, we see this girl, I once had a crush on and then we choose to leave with each other. We visit her house, but are chased down by this band of males that happen to be trying to eliminate the girl. We find yourself on a beach also it seems like we will end up being fine up until the men come across all of us. She winds up getting into this some other man, so I grab cartoonish dynamite and decide to blow myself up

Christina

: Movie.

Drew

: that is! It is Jean Luc Goddard’s

Pierrot ce Fou

, from 1965.

Christina

: Have not viewed, but that appears like a ding dang film if you ask me.

Drew

: Great, i really like it. There’s a narration describing a strange boat like framework that’s impractical to wreck. I’m going on a retreat around the design, the escape is kind of movie theater related, type of religious. I have a crush about lady within escape, but she’s a boyfriend. Amid the performances and rituals, there’s a lot of crisis between me and this also lady along with her boyfriend, it ends beside me alone. There’s been a sequence exposing your watercraft design is actually impractical to destroy because a mechanical supply fixes it during the evening.

Christina

: That could be anything in countless steps, i will state motion picture once again, then?

Drew

: really an aspiration from 2011, that did have narration from someone else, you are aware, it occurs!

Christina

: This is really good promo getting an aspiration diary, because I believe think its great would-be fun if I could bear in mind my goals in this way.

Drew

: no one likes once you explain the hopes and dreams for them. I really do though, and I also’m your own buddy, when you would you like to jot down your own hopes and dreams and let me know, i’d love to learn about them.

Christina

: Okay, which is very nice to listen.

Drew

: You will find two even more.

Christina

: Okay.

Drew

: i am in a lovely garden with a small grouping of friends, we all appear to be waking up from becoming drugged. We’re compelled to shower in an acid that empties pigment therefore become gothic and blue-eyed. The people in control begin teaching you to eliminate, as it happens this place will be run by a crazy dictator, I resist acquiring totally brainwashed. There is this girl truth be told there i’ve a crush on and I convince their to flee beside me, while leaking out I get recorded and slain, nevertheless girl will get out. When she makes the prison, she realizes we’re in the center of a forest so there’s nowhere to go.

Christina

: Movie.

Drew

: that could be the initial fantasy during my fantasy record from, I said, “2007.” Is in reality 2006.

Christina

: Wow.

Drew

: i believed it had been interesting that I perish in the dream, but the other person continues on. The good news is, absolutely some unusual gender material happening there, and I’m likely to must remember that one for a time.

Christina

: surely accomplish that.

Drew

: Okay, We have another.

Christina

: Okay.

Drew

: i am considering the opportunity to be a ballerina, my personal mother insists i will not be able to do so. Absolutely this additional woman when you look at the tv show which i do believe is hot, but i am stressed she is going to replace me. I am having difficulties in rehearsal, but-end upwards making making use of the woman, we get together. This really is hot, but i’m myself shedding control, we return to the dance tv series. My body system is apparently morphing into something else, i am stressed that i will damage.

Christina

: this is exactly a motion picture.

Drew

: Therefore,

Ebony Swan

.

Christina

: Yes, definitely

Ebony Swan

, truly.

Drew

: maybe you have viewed

Black Swan

? That was one I thought you’ve seen.

Christina

: I have seen

Ebony Swan

, I… Fun reality, I proceeded a romantic date with one observe

Dark Swan

.

Drew

: Wow.

Christina

: simply straight situations I did.

Drew

: the thing that was that like?

Christina

: Weird, it was weird.

Drew

: Did you just like the flick? Performed the guy like the film?

Christina

: i do believe, I got already seen it, In my opinion I was want, “Why don’t we get view it again.” I believe, I became really pro

Dark Swan,

and also for right heterosexual reasons, certainly.

Drew

: Sure, okay.

Christina

: And, he had been like, “That was weird.” And that I was like, “Oh well, we’re not browsing continue steadily to date.”

Drew

: Wow, really I wish him the very best, i am hoping he’s someplace successful. Thank-you for playing the game with me.

Christina

: Wow, I’m so happy I went two for but many we performed on that.

Drew

: Not bad.

Christina

: perhaps not awful.

Drew

: You did better than Elise did as I wished to find out if this is a practical video game which could operate, and she was my personal guinea-pig. So, she only got one right.

Christina

: Fair sufficient.

Drew

: Should we move on to all of our main subject regarding the few days?

Christina

: Let’s go into it, let’s understand this unique visitor in.

Drew

: Well, i do want to initial point out that the major topic associated with the week is bottoming, therefore we could only have one extremely unique guest.

Christina

: its just one person.

Drew

: Could you kindly present your self?

Chingy

: Hi, i am Chingy Nea, otherwise known as The Gay Chingy. I’m a Writer, Filmmaker, and gasian fabric dyke muppet. Im in addition The usa’s number one bottom.

Christina

: Yes, In my opinion whenever we had been speaking about subjects and we also’re like, “We could discuss bottoming so there’s virtually only 1 individual we can easily have throughout the pod to take action, there’s just one individual who is quite virtually the Supreme.”

Chingy

: thanks for identifying, it feels good to possess your own success acknowledged, thank you

Christina

: Yes, therefore’ve done great work, and here our company is knowing it.

Drew

: I want to understand as soon as you feel you became America’s greatest base. When had been that a word and a label and an identity that you truly held onto?

Chingy

: Well, therefore I typically simply state, “I’m the base Supreme.” Because, whom cares about The united states?

Drew

: Certain.

Christina

: reasonable enough.

Chingy

: Yeah, In my opinion that I always was really effective in bottoming, but then in 2017 or something, I went along to a play celebration which was just for fem top sadists beating myself right up for six to seven hrs right, and it also was just myself, and that I had been like, “Oh, i am best which is ever before been.” Following, i believe following that, I just kept increasing and being, wow, i am therefore fun to watch. Wow, i am so entertaining as a bottom, this is certainly wow, every person exactly who extends to top me personally is really lucky. And, it really went following that, In my opinion, then I had written articles known as i am a better Bottom versus You. Listed Here Is Precisely Why. It was type a manifesto, it actually was a bottom manifesto.

Christina

: indeed, can confirm.

Chingy

: And, many people have actually told me, “its changed the way they glance at sex.” And, i love that a lot. It is the one article to my site that I composed here. I have written at

Vice

,

Teen Style

,

Vulture

—

Autostraddle

had been the initial location I had written, in fact. But yeah, that is the one weblog back at my internet site, if you’d like to check it out.

Christina

: I favor a substantial brand name, i really like understanding a brand name, and I genuinely believe that’s truly gorgeous, just, brand management of your very own bottomy yourself. I believe, which is truly gorgeous observe.

Chingy

: thanks, i obtained my very first writing opportunity at

Autostraddle

because I was authoring getting a bottom, being poly, and being truly deep into becoming a leather dyke. And because after that, I started to reveal a number of other items, but getting bottom part supreme only style of will be the one through distinct almost everything.

Christina

: Yes.

Drew

: I additionally feel like you are a rather energetic bottom as well as in how you share, and talk about, and that I assume experience bottoming you are extremely effective. Whereas, In my opinion there are many the queer neighborhood, possibly, especially the lesbian society, that perhaps thinks of bottoming as… I don’t know-

Chingy:

Passivity

.

Christina

: Mm-hmm

(Affirmative)

.

Drew

: Yeah.

Chingy

: Yeah, I usually declare that there’s a lot less bottoms than individuals believe tend to be bottoms. I believe there is an improvement between becoming a bottom and simply unsure or requesting what you need. I think those are a couple of totally different things that people conflate.

Christina

: i’d have to agree, I also think the way that you explore bottoming is, What i’m saying is, let us just state it, a great deal less irritating compared to way so many people discuss being a base or recognize with bottom part culture. Because, I do feel that just what many people are saying explicitly or non explicitly is, i will be idle and do not proper care to complete any sort of action, task, et-cetera, i’d like circumstances done to myself. And, if I need to seek that in in whatever way, that affects my thoughts. And, you are so excellent and therefore strong at being, these represent the items that i would like, bring them to me personally and that I will rock your own globe. This is certainly attractive to me.

Chingy

: many thanks, after all, that’s what you need to do become good at merely anything, you need to put yourself available to choose from and check out and come up with blunders acquire harm slightly, and, I am not sure, study from it.

Christina

: i do believe that’s a information, frankly.

Chingy

: i have simply been bottoming since I have was, I don’t know, dating back to I’m able to bear in mind. [laughs]

Drew

: Cue “Rags to wealth” from

Goodfellas

.

Chingy

: Yeah, dating back to i could keep in mind, i wished to end up being a bottom. No, but types of, when I was 13 or 14, I was already looking at BDSM web pages and lesbian SADOMASOCHISM internet sites. Thus, I happened to ben’t under any delusions about what I happened to be when it comes to, I became having women we dated in high-school choke me personally away, I knew the things I desired. And so, that standard of consciousness recently provided me personally a long time to know what I want and figure out how to obtain it.

Christina

: Beautiful, Drew, offer me your feelings on bottoming.

Drew

: Well, i am in fact really thrilled to share this simply because I believe like in 2019 {when I|as I|while